PeluangPoker.com – Do you really get your guy? falling in loveOften, men simply want a woman that gets them. He wants someone who appreciates his ability to solve problems, provide, protect, and generally, someone who appreciates him. He also wants to be admired for his sense of calm under pressure and his steadiness. He definitely doesn’t want to feel emasculated because he’s much more analytical and logical.
Basically, he wants someone who sees him as their hero, as someone who’s powerful and desirable.
Never, ever, belittle him in front of his family and friends. Never put him down, act condescending or make him feel less than. This definitely goes both ways, but if you end up emasculating him in front of an audience, he’ll either head for the door or look at you in a whole new, unflattering light.
Acceptance is another big issue that can prevent a relationship from progressing. If you want a future with your man, if you want his love, don’t treat him like he’s some type of fixer upper project.
If you have the urge to make changes to his circle of friends, his appearance, the way he lives, the way he talks or make changes regarding what he loves to do, you might as well throw in the towel now. You need to accept him the way he is. If he needs help in a certain area, such as the way he looks, let him ask you for it.
The right man for you deserves to feel like he’s perfect in your eyes. If you can’t give him that, then he’s not for you.
Men consider themselves protectors and providers. If he’s willing to risk his life to protect you and invest his time and money in order to provide for you, then what he really needs is a little gratitude in return.
He just wants you to appreciate that he works hard for his money, even though he may not be able to afford to buy you whatever you want. This isn’t much to ask. So, if you want him to see the very best in you and fall in love, the one thing you should never do is disrespect his efforts or take him for granted.